美国交友俱乐部10大规则

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he 10 Rules of Swinging  10个交友规则' a  D( Q0 y: ^: Z& p& k% K; Y  ^9 ~
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What should you know about swinging before you try to swing with your partner? Here are the ten most important rules that every swinger couple should know and follow to make sure you have a good time while swapping partners.( x! [6 F$ s7 ]# H! F
在你们交友之前你们应该知道写什么呢？ 以下的这10个规则可以保证你们在交友过程中享受幸福的时光：

Like any other human activity, swinging also has its pros and cons. A few basic laid down principles can make swinging fun and foul-free, every time.
像其它任何一个人类活动一样， 交友也有它的老手和新手。 这里列出的几个基本原则可以让你的每次交友都享有快乐时光。% C! M& d3 H* M# A6 [
1. One goes, both go 一个人要走， 俩人都走。
Come as a couple and leave as one. It is not preferable if one goes while the other lags behind. Always go hand in hand without leaving your partner behind. Swinging is safer and easier if both partners are comfortable indulging in it. It is a team game. Not a solo affair.
来时作为一对夫妻， 走时作为一个整体。 一个人走了而留下另一个伙伴是不明智的。 记住俩人要时刻牵着手互不放弃。 当俩个人都刚到舒服是交友是安全和容易的。 这是一个团队活动， 而不是独自行动。
2. Punctuality  遵守时间: e  s: j1 a  N1 R
Arriving at the correct time applies here as well. Turning up late at a {-屏-|-蔽-} is a turn-off. By the time you’re in, the night would be in full swing. You’d only end up {-屏-|-蔽-} people who are already in the act feel awkward. You won’t know where to fit in too. Inform the host beforehand if you are going to be late. Or you may not be invited again.
遵守时间很重要。活动迟到等于为自己关闭大门。 因为当你进来时， 活动可能已经进入高潮。 你只能让别人感到尴尬。 你也不知道怎么下手好。 最好提前通知主人你会迟到， 否则下次就不会邀请你。
3. Courtesy 有礼貌
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The lifestyle of the swingers isn’t a piece of cake. Sometimes it is complex and complicated with lots of insecurities and uncertainties. Courtesy is the key to ease up. Behave with people just like you would like them to behave towards you. Be sensible, thoughtful and understanding.
交友活动不是一块蛋糕那么简单， 有时它会变得复杂和繁琐而缺乏不确定性和不安全感。 恰当的礼貌是唯一缓解的钥匙。 要互相体谅， 要善于察觉别人感受， 要善于理解别人， 站在别人立场上想问题。* A+ f) x0 V! c+ `# B$ n

4. RSVP to Invitations 对收到的邀请一定要回复
Even if you don’t wish to attend, answer to all invitations. It is very annoying for a host if they don’t know how many people are going to turn up. Reply by phone or mail and express your gratitude for the invitation.
即使你不会出席活动， 也一定要回复收到的邀请。 主办人会对无法弄清出席人数感到十分恼怒。 即使的以电话或邮件回复并感谢收到的邀请。0 u2 T! ]- k; }& d" _) E4 c

5. Gift for the Host 为主办人待点礼物5 q4 S$ `' J" ~' @
Don’t go to a {-屏-|-蔽-} empty-handed. Ask the host about what you could get for them. Get something racy or {-屏-|-蔽-} for the hosts every time you attend a swingers’ {-屏-|-蔽-}. See, it’s just like a normal {-屏-|-蔽-}, isn’t it?
不要空手去聚会。 问问主办人需要你带点什么， 带点生动或简单的礼物给主办人， 就像一般的聚会一样。
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6. The Right Attire 注重着装$ J) G5 g7 l9 @
Wear clothes that are practical and will be comfortable for you as the night progresses. Carrying a robe or a negligee is a good idea. Take only as much cash as you require. Keep your bling, jewelry and other valuables to the bare minimum. Losing them will be headache to you and an embarrassment to the hosts.
穿上当晚会觉得时机和舒服的服装， 带上一件长袍或女便服也不错。 带上够用的现金就行。 把你的其它值钱东西留在家里。 , z4 u# ~4 g* ~3 Z' T7 x
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7. Health and Hygiene 健康和卫生
Oral hygiene is a basic necessity for everyone. Bad breath or body odor is a big turn-off for your potential partners. Shower and groom well before you leave for the {-屏-|-蔽-}. Good cologne, perfumes or body sprays will give you the edge in the environment. The best way to enjoy the {-屏-|-蔽-} is by freshening up as you reach there.
每个人都要保持口腔卫生。 口臭和重体味会把你潜在的伙伴们拒之门外。 在出门去聚会前洗好澡打扮干净。 各种换装品和除臭剂互让你和聚会合拍。
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8. Enjoy Yourself  享受你自己
The whole idea is to have fun and enjoy your time there, so participate in activities that make you feel comfortable. Don’t let anyone pressurize you to do something you don’t like. This may be the most important one. Approach every activity with an open mind and positive attitude. Act out your fantasies, and enjoy yourself.
聚会中参加每一项让你感到舒服的活动， 放松自己， 不要让别人给你压力， 这是最重要的。 带着开放的思想和正能量去参加活动。 显示出你的风采， 享受你自己。
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9. The Right to say ‘NO’  你有说 “不”的权利! P, S$ M8 w& t( @
This is the fundamental etiquette in swinging, the right to say ‘no’. It is {-屏-|-蔽-} and straightforward, and polite to say ‘no, thank you’. Explanations and alibis aren’t required as these may cause embarrassment and hurt you. You shouldn’t be afraid to decline an invitation. It is the only way to avoid doing something you might regret afterwards. And that might just create more ill-feelings and embarrassment.# q" _" O- U9 _% n, S" P, ?2 N& F
说“不”是交友交友活动中最基本的权利。 要敢于简单而直接， 并有礼貌的说 “不， 谢谢”。 不需要你再做解释和证明。 不要害怕去拒绝邀请。 这是唯一一个让你不做后悔事的方法， 免除你以后的心病和羞辱感觉
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10. Friendliness 友谊! [8 U# f6 Z! V; I- E! Q
Be a friend to all, even if you don’t want to extend the night or don’t have any interest in getting physical with someone. You may catch a vibe by being nice with the others in the community. They may put you across to people who you may be interested in.
即使你不想过夜或肉体接触任何人， 也要对所有人友好。 这样你会感受到一个良好气氛。 别人也许会引导你找到你喜欢的人。
Swinging can be every bit as invigorating, exciting and fulfilling as you can ever imagine. It opens a window to explore your favorite fantasies in safe mode. You and your partner can work out in private, and yet you can enjoy another couple or get a group swing in just one evening., M  f: l& d4 }! N# b6 p; x
交友可能会全面的起到鼓舞，兴奋， 实现你曾经的梦想。 它为安全地探索你憧憬的幻想而打开了一扇窗户。 你和你的伴侣可以在私人领域赤裸展示自己， 可以在同一个晚上享受其他伴侣。
Meeting new interesting people and {-屏-|-蔽-} bold friends are potential side-effects of swinging. Swinging also has the common positive effect of enhancing your relationship and personal life to a great extent. The positive feeling about yourself, your mate, and your relationship is the most important factor while swinging.5 D9 a3 P8 x) Z' g+ H
认识新的人群， 结交大胆的朋友是交友的另一个作用。 交友可以把你们的关系和个人生活提升到一个新的层次。 正面的理解你自己， 你的伙伴， 你们和他人之间的关系是交友活动中最重要的。